“Sexual identity is a combo platter. There’s who you wanna do, who you are doing, and who you tell people you are. You can’t control who you wanna do—sexual orientation is not a choice—but you get to choose who you wind up doing and who you tell people you are.” – Dan Savage
Dan Savage is an advice columnist that is straightforward (snicker) and honest with people, I think that in a more sane world we could have open talks about sexuality and his column is a bit of sanity. No pushing of any agenda (other than being honest with the people you love/sleep with) and while I am not gay I certainly will back the right of anyone born gay to express their sexuality.